The matzevah, roughly translated, means ”The unveiling of the headstone.”
From the Jewish Virtual Library:
Jewish law requires that a tombstone be prepared, so that the deceased will not be forgotten and the grave will not be desecrated.
It is customary in some communities to keep the tombstone veiled, or to delay in putting it up, until the end of the 12-month mourning period.
The idea underlying this custom is that the dead will not be forgotten when he is being mourned every day. In communities where this custom is observed, there is generally a formal unveiling ceremony when the tombstone is revealed.
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This tradition is not native to my faith, but it seemed appropriate for this particular Monday, a day that'll be a little tough for some of us as it will mark the one-year anniversary of the passing of our friend, Steven Gilliard.
So in memoriam, for one day I want to set aside the transient fevers and furies of the campaign long enough to enjoy a nice, thick slice of occasion-appropriate goodness by Gilly himself (with a few words of my own fore and aft.)
Steve, like everybody else, got stuff wrong (Dubya is never gonna resign, and never gonna be impeached), and his views on dating sometimes seemed to run a gamut between, oh, say, "rustic" and "Neolithic", but typos and all (Where do you think I learned mine?) Steve used his blog like USS Missouri used her sixteen inch guns, and almost always delivered his ordnance smack in the wheelhouse.
As in this post from February 21, 2005 about the death and life of Hunter S. Thompson entitled “Outlaw journalism and the blogs”.
Enjoy.
Outlaw journalism and the blogs
Monday, February 21, 2005
A worthy legacy
It goes without saying that the death of Hunter Thompson is a tragedy, but it comes at an odd time for journalism. Thompson and his peers, like Lucian Truscott, Frances Fitzgerald and others who came of age in the 1960's and early 70's were largely ignored inside the newsroom. They were outsiders and remained largely outside the journalism mainstream. Some broke through, like Sy Hersh, but they never stayed for long, or eventually shoved aside for years. Bloggers act as if their treatment in the press and by the press is something new and unique. It isn't.
Thompson had been a newspaperman, had worked for Time and hated it. He didn't fit into the neat box that people wanted to place journalists in. Was it really any wonder that David Halberstam didn't wind up running the Times or that Sy Hersh still has to deal with people who call him a traitor. Journalism wasn't embracing the outcasts, not then, and not now. Thgompson didn't wind up in Rolling Stone because he was in high demand as a political commentator. Just like people aren't falling over themselves to read Bill Grieder finance stories today. He was a refugee from American journalism, just like many bloggers are today. Remember, the people we scorn today were the people who fit the idea of the ideal journalist. Judy Miller is what every editor, secretly dreams about, the sexy, tempestous man-crazy reporter. The fact that she's a tool for those in power doesn't discomfort them.
Bloggers are not some new creation, but the newest set of the barbarians at the gates. They are the people who don't trust the system and it's artifacts. It is to writing, what rap is to music, the coming of democracy to a trade. What Thompson and his peers did in the 60's and 70's, we do today. But free of the constraints of editors and publishers and the need to hustle up work.
Why?
Because of two different trends in writing.
One is the coopting of journalists. The insiders beat back the challenges from the Sheehans, Halberstams and Arnetts. Those who played the game won, those who didn't became heroes and authors, and exiled from the newsroom. Arnett hung on longer than most, but most were gone from the daily papers by 1975. Or they became enamored of celebrity, like Bob Woodward. Some like Sydney Schamberg and Ray Bonner, following in their tradition, were booted from newsrooms the minute their bosses felt uncomfortable. Or exiled to "alternative" papers. The newsroom became the home of the tame dissident and the complient office holder. Carl Hiaasen saves his most brutal critques of Florida life for his crime fiction. Bob Greene wrote drivel for years, finally canned, not for a lack of talent, but an excess of hunting teenaged trim. The best writing in the Washington Post is Tom Boswell's sports columns.
If people are disheartened by this, they shouldn't be. Ernie Pyle died 60 years ago this week, because he loved soldiers and the stories of their lives. Edward R. Murrow was forced out of CBS. Thompson was lucky in that since he was never inside the tent, they could never kick him out. But most of the great heroes of journalism were and will be forced from the newsroom, because that is not a place for uncomfortable truths. There has never been a national columnist like Jack Newfield or Mike Royko or Jimmy Breslin, and never will be. Because they will never play the game, or even recognize it.
The other is the irrevelant nature of modern fiction writing. The worst thing to ever happen to writing was the writing program. Because it allowed people to focus on the trivia in their lives. The greatness of Heller and Mailer escapes these mindless twits nattering about their cheating dads and pill popping moms. It's not even a world of clever craftsmen like Thomas Pynchon, but of navel gazers like Dave Eggers. Eggers, a silly, irrelevant man in a serious time, draws only my contempt and scorn. I mean, his idea of struggle was living off inherentences. Not that his personal story wasn't tragic, but it's not Sophie's Choice. The problem is that Eggers and his little group of confederates are trivial people in a not trivial time.
So you have journalists, Washington journalists, who report but do not question, getting squeamish when people do, like Helen Thomas, seeking to live off the handouts of their "sources", and get the hand-fed "scoop" which will sell papers. And fiction writers more concerned with apartments and cheating mates than the world around them.
Here are some random quotes from current fiction on Amazon. I won't name the authors to spare them embarassment:Shane McCarthy is a Berkeley-educated chimney sweep, plying his trade in the mercurial atmosphere of dot-com bubble San Francisco circa 1999. His wife, Lou, glides in and out, obsessed with making her own start-up fortune. Outside of home and work, Shane's life revolves around basketball games at the Firehouse, an asphalt refuge where he plays the game with other 30-somethings, reveling in the physicality of crashing bodies.
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You can't escape him. He swerves in and out of your life as if effortlessly walking through a crowded restaurant. He's a passive-aggressive master. He's as undetectable as a whisper and as effective as a tiny toxic pill. You probably went to school with him, and he knows everything you've done-every foolish secret ambition you've nurtured, everyone you wish you'd never slept with, every lame, fleeting trend you've embraced. The Underminer throws you into a spiral of self-doubt each time you see him.
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Prep is the story of Lee Fiora, a South Bend, Indiana, teenager who wins a scholarship to the prestigious Ault school, an East Coast institution where "money was everywhere on campus, but it was usually invisible." As we follow Lee through boarding school, we witness firsthand the triumphs and tragedies that shape our heroine's coming-of-age. Yet while Sittenfeld may be a skilled storyteller, her real gift lies in her ability to expertly give voice to what is often described as the most alienating period in a young person's life: high school.
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The Right Address seeks to expose the cruel and wicked ways of the top echelon of the Park Avenue crowd. Peppered with seemingly unbelievable accounts of social-climbing at its worst, the characters in this novel glide from party to party, relishing every possible chance to destroy each other's reputation while simultaneously air-kissing one another.
Notice the trivial nature of these books. Their self-absorption and lack of interest in the wider world. It is masturbation in print for the most part, and irrelevant. You would hardly know that men are hunting men in the mountains of Afghanistan and dodging roadside bombs in Iraq. The world of the vital has escaped our fiction, to be replaced by the world of the trivial and self-involved. Why? Because that is what drives the writing program, those who write well about themselves, but without the real introspection needed to be honest. The Naked and the Dead is a savage tale of men at war, Catch 22 lacking in any kind of larger heroism. These were not tales which made the authors heroic, but exposed their foibles and their fears. What is usually missing from the description of these modern novels is the condescension the authors feel for their subjects. These books are about revenge on imperfect lives, the failures of their parents and those around them. There is no honesty in them, because the honesty is bred out of them.
Their template is the Catcher in the Rye, but lacks the brutal self-analysis JD Salinger brought to it. But then, like his peers, his anger was driven by the war he had fought. These program-raised authors are angry because their lives were imperfect. They have never missed a meal, felt fear at seeing the police, much less rode in a truck past a bomb. They are angry at the safety and comfort of their lives.
So when you need a brutal, honest fiction to deal with lives in Bush's America, and it's contradictions, you get bitter drivel. Or you get the 'sploitation novels which is best-selling black fiction. They aren't exploitation, because most are barely literate.
'Sploitation plays off the fictional criminal world created by studio gangsters and rim-tricked out cars. It's as self-indulgent and masturbatory as the lamest writing program fiction. Just written without a spell checker and sold in the street next to Message for the Black Man and the Autobiography of Malcolm X. The glorification of criminal life is nothing new, but it isn't reality either.
The outlets to discuss American life are now closed off because one group is afraid and the other indifferent.
Which is why blogs are so popular. There is no other outlet to explain the contradictions in American life cleanly and clearly. The outcasts are more unwelcome now than ever in newsrooms battered by greedy owners and vindictive politics, fiction created to explain the anger at middle class suburbia. Honesty and truth have no place in either forum.
Which is why Hunter Thompson was a hero. He was honest to a fault and mean to a fault. In a world where journalism has become about asking questions politely and fiction about settling grudges with parents and schoolmates, he was about something far more important.
Blogs follow in the tradition of outlaw journalism, but without the flourishes he liked. It's not about just being outrageous, most of the bloggers are little different than their peers in newspapers, clean living young men and women. They don't get drunk and naked for fun, they pay their bills, stay faithful and maybe have a beer too many. However, it is the spirit of what Thompson meant, to be outside the laws of journalism, not the rules, but the laws. The laws of not offending advertisers and friendly pols. The laws of family friendly copy. Those laws. Not the rules about honesty and decency.
When Howard Kurtz whines about "fairness", someone needs to tell him the truth. "Mistah Kurtz, we are not fair. We are honest." Bush uses fairness like a Samurai uses a katana, to slice and dice and win. Fairness will no more stop Bush than a bazooka could stop a Tiger tank (couldn't come close). It is honesty which will stop him. People have to tell the truth. Kurtz and his fellows are people to be derided and mocked, not argued with. To accord him respect and seriousness, in the job most journalists disdain like cops hate internal affairs, is to give him power that his peers would never. The next time he whines about fairness, laugh in his face, wave a shrunken head in front of him, show him a picture of King Leopold. Do anything you want to show him the contempt you hold him in. But his words are meaningless to the people who matter, our readers.
Thompson understood the danger of objective journalism, which was a creature of the post-war period, Roosevelt would have laughed at the concept, battered by Father Coughlin and the Chicago Tribune, which is that the dishonest and the disingenious can have their way with the honest and decent. He called for subjective journalism long ago and our temporary experiment of objective journalism is ending, because it only serves the status quo, which is not most of us.
It's odd to think of the outsider Thompson having won the day about what we call journalism, but blogging allows for a world of outlaw journalists, working cheap and fast ans supporting each other in ways he couldn't imagine. It's not a bad legacy.
Steve wanted a new, active, unapologetic journalism that could stand up and make its own way in the world unbought and unbossed. A journalism whose practitioners would write the way Jimmy Cagney said actors should act:
"Plant your feet, and tell the truth”
Gilly managed to do more than his fair share to move the blogosphere in that direction before he died; in one post after another -- rain or shine, month after month, year in and year out -- he offered his readers a singular voice and an implacable clarity of thought; unaffected genuineness filtered though a fierce bullshit-detector made out of impressive scholarship and pure, New York street savvy.
And he did it every day, on spec.
(And what I wouldn't give to "hear" him just one more time, taking up his sword and buckler to vivisect both Scott McClellan's sweaty, high school drama club performance as Senator Joe Paine from the last reel of “Mr. Smith Goes to Washington” --“I'm not fit to live. Expel me! Expel me! Not him. Every word that boy said is the truth! Every word about Taylor and me and graft and the rotten political corruption of our state. Every word of it is true. I'm not fit for office! I'm not fit for any place of honor or trust. Expel me!”
-- and the book he coughed up that might as well have been entitled “The Dirty Fucking Hippies Were Right All Along!”.)
"The News Blog" was an oasis where the weary and dispirited could have the fatigued steel in their spines braced and re-welded, inspiring a small army of Liberals to remember to stand the fuck up, fight back and never relent just because the opposition was girded with gilt-edged bylines, snappy teevee graphics, teleprompters, smirks and William Fioravanti suits.
Steve fathered and grandfathered other blogs, including the fabulous Group News Blog whose proprietors won't be going to the Democratic National Convention by sneaking over the razorwire at three A.M. or as corralled Progressives herded to some off-site, petting zoo Free Speech Zone, but as credentialed bloggers! As free to roam and graze and write great things and mac on Daljit Dhaliwal’s fine self as anyone else with backstage laminates to the Democratic Party's Biggest Show.
Gilly's legacy both is a body of writing, and a model for just how much one person working his or her craft with passion, focus, clean hands and talent can change the world.
Which is one hell of a headstone.
And, yes, I still miss him every day.
24 comments:
Damn, I still miss Steve so much as well. Never got a chance to meet him, never directly corresponded w/ him, but his blog was so central to my day. I still base many of my positions on his arguments. So much great prose.
Drifty, I was a newcomer to teh blogs the year he pased on. I got in just enuff to know. And Know I did.
Huzzah, Kaplah!
You done him, and us, good.
Thank you, hoss. Thank you.
You done it all good.
Don't stop.
And this one's for Gilley.
Bless him.
I used to check Steve every day (about this time) ... before I checked the local papers. Steve was obviously terrific on national stuff, but I really liked his New York stuff. He had a great grip on local politics and I would give anything to have heard his take on the loony year we have had here (Spitzy, Paterson, Vito, et al.)
TNB was the place to be during the 2005 NYC transit strike. I remember walking the four miles to work (and back) and immediately checking Steve for some of his finest stuff and the pitched battles in TNB comments.
You bet I miss Steve.
Sweet, sharp, stuff, from both of these good souls.
Big hug, Myrtle June, for posting this.
Onward.
(and, of course, fuck the fucking Yankees! :o) )
and the book he coughed up that might as well have been entitled “The Dirty Fucking Hippies Were Right All Along!
Correct
The word is correct NOT right.
Always going forward, never going "straight".
To me this was Steve's talent. Staying bent however many degrees it took to try to correct the course. Unwilling to cede another inch. Untwisting the pretzel logic of the con. Eye on the pea, not on the shill. Reaching the objective of the convoluted deception before the perps finished lacing their boots.
Gilly took the shortest distance between two points; where we are and where we need to be.
The conventional wisdom against the progressive point of view is: "If it is such a great idea or way of doing things, it would already be in place. Therefore, because it is NOT how things are being done, it is naturally inferior."
That's so simple that even Hannity and O'Reilly can't screw it up. So simple that an unthinking quarter of the populace is willing to accept it as a given.
The factor that is missing from their equation is as obvious as the PnP boogeymen they pull out of their asses to make their phony numbers dance to their phony tune.
The game is rigged, the books are cooked, the foundation is undermined. The object is not a better life for all, just keeping discontent beneath a threshold that threatens their comfortable position.
And how nice is it that the Mets have won five out of their last six as a tribute? Because for much of this season, if Gilly were still around this baseball team would have killed him.
It is a mark of the man that even with the Great Driftglass and the equally great GNB-ers around, not a day goes by that I don't think "I wish Steve Gilliard were still around to write about this."
God speed.
You ain't no slouch either Mr. Driftglass, as I recall, you have quite a bit more insight than 98% of teh Blogosphere.
Thank goodness his words are still available to us, as is his don't give an inch attitude.
We fight back.
Couldn't say it better if I tried.
A little less than a year ago, I took the unusual step of placing a marker on my personal calendar unrelated to family and friends -- a note commemorating the passing passing of Steve Gilliard, someone I never met (except perhaps fleetingly during my Silicon Alley days). But for seven years, from 2000 (when he was at Netslaves) through his hospitalisation, Steve had been an almost daily presence in my life, someone with many similar interests and experiences (and many disparate ones as well).
I could always count on Steve to look back with me on the horrific business practises of the dot-com's "New" Economy and the equally shoddy professional standards of the media and journalism industries in which we both worked.Though he was a "fighting" liberal, he didn't shy away from taking on counter-productive left-wing fantasists (street protestors, anar-kiddies, and Naderites) and sell-outs (he was scathing about NARAL and other "progressive" lobbying organisations co-opted by Beltway culture) in addition to the easily targetted right-wing fantasists (far too many to list). And he was one of the few bloggers who adequately spoke to a New Yorker's outraged experience of 9-11 without letting things devolve into bigotry and jingoism -- something I especially appreciated.
I also learned new things from Steve, and had my views challenged and my mind changed. We never fully agreed about the NYC transit union or Al Sharpton, but I came out of those discussions and debatess with a more moderate view on their roles in the city's life than when I started out. And as a privileged white guy, I received the additional privilege of reading a liberal African American's ("wait ... Steve is black?!") angry yet grounded perspective of how much injustice still remains in our society, unencumbered by the usual special pleading and flashy abrasiveness that usually accompanies that point of view.
Steve was far from perfect, as he'd have been the first to admit. Driftglass mentions the posts on dating and romance -- one of the rare instances where Steve chose to write on a topic about which he was woefully under-informed. There was also his stubborn refusal to apply an editorial eye -- even his own -- to his work. His notoriously poor political predictions emerged mainly out of the fact that he was a loyal Democratic Party man, during a time when the party was barely beginning to earn back that loyalty after decades of incompetence, complacency, and general squandering of goodwill.
But I miss the voice, far past the point that I would normally. From time to time over the past year, I've found myself thinking about Steve: wondering what he would have to say about Hillary Clinton's slow-motion train wreck of a primary campaign, with its coded appeals to racism and fear; speculating about his unique viewpoint applied to the Obama campaign and the associated pseudo-scandals like Jeremiah Wright; wondering how he would have reacted to Prince Bush's inevitable (but not sudden or spectacular, as Steve liked to imagine) downfall; considering what insights he'd have on the devolving situation in Mesopotamia; and chafing as I thought about what Steve would have done 2 weeks ago with 8000 words on blogging in the NYT Magazine (as opposed to Emily Gould's self-indulgent twaddle and score-settling). And knowing I'd be surprised by his opinions on all counts.
I find bits and pieces of Steve's viewpoint scattered throughout the net. There's driftglass's acid take on the hypocrites and crooks that infest the Beltway in this blog, of course. There's LowerManhattanite's fantastic perspective on national politics from NYC in my filtered feed of the GroupNewsBlog. There are the War Nerd's history-infused and unsentimental military analyses at exile.ru. There are still a few reality-based liberal political sites out there, but I've lost respect for many of them over this endless primary season. And, if I were so inclined, there are countless places to find discussions of soccer and cooking. I try as best I can to put them together.
But they aren't all in one place, in one voice, as they were up until Steve went to hospital. And there isn't the thoughtful and educated community and level discourse he attracted -- surprising given his pugnacious honesty and his refusal to ban or censor or even moderate 99% of the comments, but less surprising when one considers Steve's ability to set the tone by force of his voice alone and apply lessons learned during the collapse of Netslaves. There were and are few places where "trolls couldn't hang," but Gilliard's place was one of them. And these days, with all due respect to driftglass, I can't find a place that active and tumultuous and civilised anymore.
So lacking that place, Driftie's joint is my second choice -- probably some old-timers hanging around who will know what I'm talking about, and will join me in raising a glass to Steve Gilliard, Fighting Liberal. Wish he was here.
Drifty--thank you so much for the tribute. Hugs.
a fiting trubute..i too dated back to steves start at netslaves...his insight is missed.
When the news broke that Steve had passed away, I was shocked, hurt and kinda broken. For a while. Like when a family member passes away; yet, I'd never met the man.
I DO, however, own a NEWS BLOG t-shirt.
Aquarius40
The greatest gift I think Steve gave me (aside from a host of other things) was a thorough understanding of military logistics for an ignorant civilian. Truly, a gift.
Anon - I too have the "Fighting Liberals/We Fight Back" t-shirt.... and a tank. My little post at home does too... and a 'tube. I linked to Driftglass last night for the words.... I don't have any really.
I was a reader long enough to know how incredibly brilliant Steve was and how refreshed I felt after reading there. Truly a force of spirit in that man. Inspired so many to make that stand and say exactly what they mean and mean exactly what they say.... in their own voice. Igniting so many voices but none so laser like as Driftglass'. Thank You, Driftglass for Fighting On!
Thank you Tanbark, backatcha. A round of Hugs for all. Keep fighting!
FTFY!!!!
A lovely tribute. He was a trial blazer, and all of us are in his debt.
Whoops. Of course I meant "trail blazer."
I am so sorry for your loss and that of others who knew him personally. I will always regret never having had the opportunity to become acquainted with him before his death.
Peace,
PhysioProf
Man I miss Steve G.
For him,
Fuck the Fucking Yankees!
Hey Steve!, ManU won both the Premiership and the Championship this year............. just to let you know. Cheers mate.......
Cheers mate.....
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Me too, I miss the fuck outa him. Never met the man but read everything he wrote on his own blog. The guy could write.
Damn, drifty, that was a fine memorial. Oh, yeah, and fuck the fucking yankees.
steve's writing was breathtakingly brilliant, and he wielded his talent as sharply and deftly as a ginsu blade. this piece you offer in rememberance, drifty, is so on point it made me gasp. as one from within the palace walls, i'm telling you what you already know: he had it cold. and as a new yorker/liberal/yankee-hating mets fan, steve spoke for me in ways far more incisively and clear-eyed than i often could myself.
last year was harsh and hard on us. we also lost mollie. we have needed them. every. damn. day. since.
for what it's worth, drifty, you bring fresh wood to the fire. it's much appreciated. keep it burning.
Drifty, I appreciate this. So sad today. Kickass wisdom every day, that was Steve for me.
I'm grateful that you are doing what you do here- urged by Steve and so many of us and for reasons that are self-evident.
thank you.
I followed his recipe for Potato Salad to the letter a couple of years back and I'm still the food hit of whatever function I attend.
As for his mad writing skills...I gave the recipe to my daughter and she remarked that it was the first recipe that was actually a pleasure to read. I think it's still in the archives.
...Except maybe Driftglass, he really is a man I'm glad is on our side of the fence. mikefromtexas
Nuff Said. Love you Drifty...
FTFY
Thanks Driftglass...
Drifty,
Thanks so much for this.
Good memories of a good man.
Steve's writing and his spirit created a wonderful community.
So does yours.
I treasure your words drifty,
and your "let's nose-dive into this thing" spirit. And your kindness,
remembering Steve, well, many, many thanks.
Keep words flowing drifty,
You're like a line of cool frosties
on a hot, humid day.
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